In honor of the New Moon in Aquarius, we are going to switch things up and talk about something a little more taboo. Erotic Blueprints 🥀❤️

If you want to work on your sex life or your sexual energy, this is one of the very first things I do with clients. Let’s chat about Erotic Blueprints. 

If you have ever heard of the five love languages the erotic blueprints are very similar. Each one of us has a sexual language that supports our pleasure and honors our sexual needs. 

Think of your Erotic Blueprint as a personalized guide revealing your distinct desires and arousal patterns. It serves as a language, decoding your turn-ons and preferences. 

Within this blueprint lie both positive aspects and shadows, unconscious elements, and significant areas. By exploring these facets, we can enhance the positives and work through, heal, and let go of the shadow elements, leading to a richer erotic journey.

Understanding our Erotic Blueprint empowers us to recognize our own needs and those of others, craft individual pleasure maps, and navigate compatibility issues with sexual partners.

What are the different types?

Let’s start with Sensual. The sensual type is turned on by arousing the senses. They like to explore taste, and smell, and play through sensations.  

Setting the environment is key for these individuals. You discover sexual connection by awakening all senses, delighting in tastes, aromas, and the atmosphere of your erotic surroundings. 

You are turned on by Various types of touch, creating beautiful settings, and incorporating music can aid individuals in distancing themselves from their thoughts and fully embracing the moment. Relaxation before arousal is important!

The energetic type is turned on by anticipation. They like to build energy with teasing, longing, and desire. 

Setting the anticipation is key for these individuals. You discover sexual connection by delaying pleasure, building up the energy, and playing.

You are turned on by Teasing touch, eye contact, synchronized breathing (which conveys a sense of safety), and presence (remaining attuned to them physically, mentally, and emotionally). 

The sexual elements turn on the sexual type. They connect with nudity, genitals, and the organism itself.

Setting up the overall picture is key for these individuals. You discover sexual connection by visual stimuli, touch, and organisms. 

You are turned on by the thought of sex and visual/ physical stimulation. You get turned on very easily and sex is straightforward for you. You enjoy the act itself and the pleasure it gives. Genital arousal is your favorite and may be the only thing you need to get turned on. 

The taboo turns on the kinky type. They are creative and love to explore toys and objects. There are several kinds of kinky types. One example is psychology which is more about power dynamics. Another type is more about feelings which is about impact play and sensations. 

Setting the play is key for these individuals. You discover sexual connection by role-playing and intensity.

You are turned on by Exploring boundaries, testing the limits of intensity and pleasure, engaging in power play scenes that trigger psychological responses, and venturing beyond your usual experiences.

The shapeshifter type is turned on by it all. They can connect to all energetic types and love exploration. They can be turned on by any of the blueprints, sensual, sexual, kinky, and energetic. You can easily shift into what your partner needs and that turns you on. 

Setting the space for exploration is key for these individuals. You discover sexual connection by pleasing your partner and exploring new things.

You are turned on by variety, play, trying something new, meeting your partner's needs, and switching up the scenery. 

What is your erotic blueprint? 

If you want to learn more about erotic blueprints, you can email me your questions. Miss Jaiya, the founder of Erotic Blueprints offers a free quiz to discover your specific blueprint. You can find this quiz on her website ❤️🥀